What is and isn’t appropriate?  Who makes this decision?  There are laws that tell you to turn down loud music so not to offend or bother others.  Establishments have rules like, “no shirt-no-shoes-no service!” Bases have many guidelines about this subject.  Did you know that there are dress codes for facilities on base?  Yep, there sure are, but some women must not know this.  Here is an example:

I went to a “family meeting” at one of my husband’s previous commands.  These are common meetings that almost every wife that is attached to a boat has been to many times during her husband’s career.  They normally happen prior to deploying. During this “pre” deploying meeting, something caught my eye.

A young wife in front of me was wearing extremely low and tight hip hugger jeans.  Continue reading →