My current post was going to be about friendship. Then, as I wrote, emails kept coming. I didn’t realize it was such a big topic. 99% of those who wrote, asked to be anonymous. I didn’t realize it was a big secret topic. Then, I started writing. And writing. And writing some more. I didn’t realize it was such a personal topic. I didn’t realize a lot. There is more to talk about than friendship.  Sometimes when I write, I write to share a thought I already have. It’s easy to answer a question that has been asked a thousand times. With time, my answers evolve and hopefully become even more insightful. But, there are times I write, like this last week, that I feel like I was answering myself. I was digging for answers…searching my heart for the right way to go about such a sensitive topics. I walked away from this many times this last week. I wrote, then stopped. I started over, then stopped. It’s important for me to be honest, but to keep in mind who is reading this. My ‘sorority’ is one of the largest and diverse known. A Military spouse *club*, as many refer to it. All ages, experiences, backgrounds, genders and beliefs. So, this next topic has many parts. Some of it will apply to you and not others. Some will apply to all of us. Continue reading →